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When kids play with blocks, they can build simple towers or small houses. But it’s very difficult to put together a more complex and nuanced building without a plan. Just stacking random blocks on top of one another won’t
do. To build a building, you need a blueprint.
Human relationships are also nuanced and complex. Relationships need structures and
boundaries. We need to define specific expectations of appropriate behavior within the relationship. Random interactions and connections with other people won’t do. To build a relationship, you also need a blueprint.
“It’s not possible
which determines how you behave when you are subject to authority or when you are in a position of authority, is based on your relationship to
In fact, it’s not possible to build a
relationship without a blueprint. You
have an unconscious relationship
blueprint for each relationship in your
life. Those blueprints are based on your perceptions, observations, expectations, and experiences of that
kind of relationship. We created the original blueprints asveryyoungchildren,andsinceour primary relationships at the time were with our parents, our experiences of to build a our parents form the basis of many
of our most important relationship For example, the Authority Blueprint,
relationship blueprints.
without a blueprint.”
each individual parent. You have a Male Authority Blueprint, based on your relationship with your father,
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RELATIONSHIPS